it is necessary to stay in the house when you have a baby. not just for the sake of the baby but also for your own sake, but it is not for ever. it is temporary and it does not stop yu from going out and doing things.

Well, that is quite obvious and even if the father says he will contribute the upbringing of the child he won’t do it as you would like it to be so in the end you will only put the sacrifice on yourself – yourself.

in a way that is true. When you have a child you do not want ot be away so longer travelling is out of question.